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Childhood thoughts… Adult Mentality

I was reading when Tori came into the room about to cry. I noticed her sad and teary countenance. So I asked, what is it? One thing with her is you have to keep prodding for her to open up. After cajoling her, she finally opened up and said, Nuggie doesn’t want to play with me. ” Why? I asked. She said I should go that she doesn’t want to play.  Is that why you are crying? Let me tell you something, I said. “There are times someone will not want to play with you, leave them and find something […]

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Subtle Ways Your Upbringing Shows Up Everywhere

I was going through an interesting article titled. “subtle ways your upbringing stays with you.”   Basically, the article written by Ramith Sethi says… the people you spend your life with growing up shape your world views. (well who doesn’t know that, I thought to myself). but when he went ahead to illustrate with Caithy Cronkhite’s story. I realized I didn’t know at all.   Whenever I read something, I do not think of how it is true/false and people should learn from it. Rather, I search myself to see how it applies to me and where I need to […]

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Establishing thought pattern

I was talking with my cousin in the office. I told her I noticed Tori gets angry and resentful whenever her siblings get something and she doesn’t. or they get something bigger than hers. I think I have to stop allowing her pick first or giving her things because her siblings have. even when she did not ask for it. A colleague who was listening in on the conversation. Butted in and said. “why? she is the eldest. She should have the biggest share of everything and also choose first.” “Is that so?” I asked “ehen,” he replied with full […]

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