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Sneak Preview: Spouse Support

#Sneakpreview Meet Olori Anita Ajayi… She is a power house of wisdom. This was the fiery one who confidently went for whatever she wants. Is it hard? Of course it is but since God gave the go ahead she went ahead. She had a lot to say and I didn’t want her to stop talking…  She said…  “The problem is that women use too much physical and head knowledge to try and convince their husbands. Let me tell you woman, you are not alone. In most homes it’s a cause for concern, especially when one partner is feeling the financial […]

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Hold your Gift… give me my Apology!

During the early days of marriage, I was an expert at holding grudges and keeping malice. but over time I saw I was wasting my time and energy on things that does not matter. I had to accept that try hard as I may, my husband will never behave or think like me because he is his own person. Instead of saying sorry he helps out with house chores or he becomes chatty. Initially I wanted the sorry, but with time, I lost interest even in the sorry. because those things I considered as slights on his part didn’t matter […]

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Why We Pray for Our Children’s Future Spouse

I remember writing a post on praying for my children’s spouses… Carlie Kecheval breaks down why it’s important I keep at it. You can stay there are still little, why the hurry? But when I remember their spouses are growing too with life throwing both the good, bad and ugly at them… You cannot afford not to. Let me and my husband in old age be thanking God for his bounty around us because all foundation has been solidified spiritually and physically. rather than because of our laxity today allow someone who didn’t do their homework well pour stones in my rice… Should the other […]

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Babies and Spouses

You’ve done all the best you could for your children: taught them morals,respect and all the what-nots that will make them great men and women tomorrow… Made sacrifices, given them the world if you can with plenty prayers even fasting, and hallelujah! they turned out well. Time to marry, they go successfully you smile sheepishly and relax, time to be called grandpa/grandma but nooooo…one man or woman comes in the name of husband or wife to scatter all the effort you have made with beatings or different abuse in different forms. Ha! My Children! These were the thoughts that went […]

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