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The purpose of the purpose

Meet Isi Igenegba… She had me nodding my head like an agama lizard and hmmming like a siren. Among the gems she dropped is… “No matter how purposeful you are as a woman and how much you are walking in purpose, you must know when to put on the cloak of meekness.  There should not be a time that your husband should feel that there is no place for me in her life. As strong as I am when I am with my husband, I am like jelly. He knows and believes that I need him. The problem with us […]

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Can two work together except they be agreed?

What if you found what you want to do and your spouse does not agree with your idea, business or plan? Read: Wife… Where are you in the Equation?   Sometimes you want to start something but your spouse for one reason or the other does not agree with the idea. First off, these things are to be discussed before marriage (plans, dreams e.t.c. do not think anyone will change their mind later in marriage. make sure you trash those issues out and you are on similar page before you jump to “I do”) but in case they weren’t…   […]

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Proverbs 5:15-20 (AMP) Against temptations and infidelity

My husband (his name) drinks water from his own cistern(me) And fresh running water from his own well. His springs (children) shall not be dispersed, As streams of water in the streets? (No Children born out-of-wedlock for him) my husband is confined to only me; his wife.] His children are ours alone, And not the children of strangers with us. I am (wife) blessed [with the rewards of fidelity], My husband rejoices in me; the wife of his youth. I am as a loving hind and graceful doe, My breasts refresh and satisfy my husband at all times; He is always exhilarated and delight in my love. He is not […]

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Colossians 1:9-14

  I ask God that you fill my husband and I(my children, siblings, parents e.t.c) with the knowledge of your will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that I may live a life worthy of you Lord and please you in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of you, God,  being strengthened with all power according to your glorious might so that I may have great endurance and patience, and giving joyful thanks to you Father, thank you Father for qualifying me to share in the inheritance of your holy people in the kingdom of light. Thank you for rescuing […]

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My Dreams and God’s will

When I met my husband, he was the opposite of all I dreamed of in a man: the only thing he had going for him then was that he is tall. I dreamed of big and brawny but he was slim and lanky, I always wanted a language different from mine, so my children will be polyglot but he came not only from my state but my hometown, I wanted a different church but he attended my family church e.t.c. All these as far as I was concerned disqualified him. But before I totally disqualified him, I went to ask […]

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Mine…or not?

I wanted going to the office briefly, but didn’t want the hassle of driving, so decided to board a tricycle instead. I knew how much it costs to take a tricycle from the house to my destination, so I knew what I was waiting for. Within two to three minutes of standing there, about six to seven tricycles passed, some were full, those that were not full I flagged down and told them my destination with how much I was willing to pay to make sure we were on the same page. They were calling a price above the appropriate […]

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Ephesians 1:17-19 (NIV)

God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, I ask that you give my husband and me (my children, sibling e.t.c) the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that we may know you better. I pray that the eyes of our heart be enlightened in order that we may know the hope to which you have called us, the riches of your glorious inheritance in your holy people, and the incredible greatness of your power available for us who believe you.  

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Dews and Droplets

I was getting discouraged and depressed because I have not seen answers to many things I have been working and praying for. My husband called that his car which he had been trying to trade-off for over two months has been sold, I told him “well God tried a little,” “little?” He asked, then he proceeded to remind me of all the different ways God came through for us. When he puts it like that I saw how selfish and ungrateful I have been. I later came to the sitting room, while flipping through channels, I came across Joyce Meyer and […]

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