New Book Alert!!!

Pre order is up for my new book coming out on the 14th of October titled:                                       Where are you? (A woman’s guide to finding self)  Have you always wondered if there was more…? Do you find yourself being unsatisfied with everything? Do you find yourself getting angry or depressed at people especially family without knowing why? Have you ever wondered why you are on earth and what you were meant for? Do you ever feel something is missing but you do not […]

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Book review... Evados children series 1&2

Book Review… Evados Children Series 1&2

I asked for an honest book review and this was as in-depth as it could come… Thank you for this!!!     REVIEW OF “EVADOS CHILDREN SERIES (ME AND MY SOUND MIND)” BOOK TITLE: EVADOS CHILDREN SERIES (ME AND MY SOUND MIND) VOLS. 1&2 AUTHOR: LOVE UFEDO ILLAH PUBLISHER: BEAUTIFUL FEET PUBLISHING YEAR: 2018 PAGES (VOLUME1&2): 65 REVIEWER: CHARLES ODINIYA, PONTIFICAL URBAN UNIVERSITY, ROME, ITALY     Title The title of this book is borne out of the ardent desire of a mother to teach her children lessons about God, life and etiquette.   Content The book is divided into […]

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amazon and okadabooks... sneak preview

Out on Amazon and Okadabooks…. Sneak Preview

ME AND MY SOUND MIND VOLUME 2 OUT ON AMAZON AND OKADABOOKS E-COPY AVAILABLE NOW CLICK TO GET YOURS   https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GZJ8RX1   https://okadabooks.com/book/about/me_and_my_sound_mind_volume_1/19971   #Sneakpreview   #Mister Won’t let go   “Daddy, I want a ball.” Samuel asked yet again. Samuel had been asking for a ball since he played with Joseph’s ball. Daddy had told him no, but he refused to give up and kept asking every day. Daddy had stopped saying no, and chose to ignore him whenever he asked, but Samuel was not tired of asking.   “Daddy, I want a ball,” was the first thing Samuel […]

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Partner… the easier way to more creative vibe

When we think of ideas and businesses most times, we think of what we can do, how we can start… how we can hoard all the ideas, so people do not steal it.   We forget two head is better than one… one chase a thousand, two ten thousand   Sometimes, we cannot do everything ourselves, For instance, you may have an idea. but it will require you learning how to make the thing but you have zero interest in learning it.   I have different designs for children clothe in my notebook. but I will rather not learn how […]

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can two walk together except they be agreed?

Can two work together except they be agreed?

What if you found what you want to do and your spouse does not agree with your idea, business or plan? Read: Wife… Where are you in the Equation?   Sometimes you want to start something but your spouse for one reason or the other does not agree with the idea. First off, these things are to be discussed before marriage (plans, dreams e.t.c. do not think anyone will change their mind later in marriage. make sure you trash those issues out and you are on similar page before you jump to “I do”) but in case they weren’t…   […]

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my pain and environment are pointers

My Pain and Environment are Pointers

I started asking questions, I got the idea for my blog Memoirs of a young wife and mother (memoirsofayoungwifeandmother.com) there, I poured things, as I learnt I wrote, from there the idea for my children storybook came. The original youthful dreams and plans did not change but it evolved. I met and interviewed each person, it was like I was receiving the gift of me back piece by piece. I saw Ufedo again, the one who had laid forgotten while I was being realistic. The dream came back, those innocent, naïve dreams of before, they were not totally useless because […]

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THE MILLION QUESTION AND SEED

The Million Question and Fruit…

Who am I? A quivering bundle of flesh? A biomass? A house for babies? A cocoon for my husband? A homemaker and caregiver? But animals also do all these…   Why am I here? Wake up in the morning Wipe butts and noses Cook delicacies and purees Wash and fold laundry   Where am I going? When the butts and noses have gone out of my reach No one to taste the delicacies When all the laundry to fold is mine Am I created to only be a mother?   What do I do With the time allotted to me […]

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something called essence... remember it?

Something Called Essence…Remember It?

A friend sent me a message recently, in her words she said “I am craftless, help me.” I share this because it was a very ironic statement. While we were in school, she was the go to person for everything. From electronics repair, to phones, clothes e.t.c. whatever you want mended or repaired, she will figure it out; with no formal training whatsoever.   She was bursting with creativity and I wished I could do half of the things she did. She topped that up with a formal training in fashion design.   She has been busy with marriage and […]

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wife... where are you in the equation?

Wife… Where are you in the equation?

Last quarter of 2017 I noticed I was feeling restless, not satisfied with myself. Like something was missing, what could be that you may ask, well that was the question I kept asking myself too. I am married, have a job, with children… so what could be the matter? That should be okay right? I got irritated easily at myself and everyone and I didn’t know what was missing. Nobody could understand even when I explained.   I started asking God questions, what is wrong God, why am I feeling this way? I read different books.   On social media, […]

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a gift rather than an apology

Hold your Gift… give me my Apology!

During the early days of marriage, I was an expert at holding grudges and keeping malice. but over time I saw I was wasting my time and energy on things that does not matter. I had to accept that try hard as I may, my husband will never behave or think like me because he is his own person. Instead of saying sorry he helps out with house chores or he becomes chatty. Initially I wanted the sorry, but with time, I lost interest even in the sorry. because those things I considered as slights on his part didn’t matter […]

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